Spooktacular Brew for the Sexless Marriage

October is a great month to brew Spooktacular desire back into the
Sexless Marriage or a virtually Sexless Marriage. Often times, sex
becomes absent in the marriage simply out of boredom and day-to-day
responsibilities which take over our time to be intimate and ability to be
keep intimacy alive.

These obstacles steal sexual desire a little at a time until sex becomes
absent in the marriage. Then, couples live in unhappy, and
avoiding marriages without resolutions. When the intimate connection
grows apart between the husband and wife, the couples can quickly find
their marriage suffering in a sexless dilemma hard to correct and even
harder to overcome.

Halloween is a perfect opportunity to break the ole’ boring routine our
marital intimacy gets stuck in and brew some life back into a sex life that
may otherwise be dead and gone.

Keeping sex alive in a marriage is about adding variety to marital intimacy
to keep it appetizing year- after-year. Otherwise, without change, sex may just
fizzle out and be difficult to restore.

Plan a surprise Halloween party for your spouse in the privacy
of your bedroom. No interruptions allowed though…get a sitter
lined up for a night Spooktacular romance. Then, allow yourself to
spend an entire night trick or treating in your private domain.

What an exciting way to add new adventure and variety to your love
life, not to mention, surprises your spouse and have a night of
breathtaking Thrills, Chills, and Goosebumps. A romantic Halloween
party, is an excellent way to break the barriers of a stale and
predictable love life.

So, get inside yourself and find that prankster gangster and plot
your Halloween bash. As the weather moves in to Fall, this is one
way to start warming the house for Winter temperature ahead.

It’s time to light the pilot in your marriage and set the
thermostat for new warmth in your martial intimacy. No since
staying stuck in a chilled bed night after night when it can
otherwise be different with a little work and imagination.

A surprise Halloween party is your time for a night of intimate
tricking and treating…not to mention, an opportunity to brew up

Furthermore, such an exiting bash is a perfect opportunity to
explore or introduce intimacy products such as warming lubes,
warming massage oils, edible powders, lotions and potions to your
love life. Complimentary lotions and potions certainly can
heighten pleasure and arouse desires that may be fizzled out.

Since Halloween is a time of pumpkins and spice, it is time
to capitalize upon both of these elements. Decorating for romance
and adding some Spice can be a new addition to your marital

Getting spark back into your marital relationship is about treating
your spouse to new and different experiences than where the two
have been and where the two of may remain.

Capitalize upon this holiday and use it to your marital benefits.
Allow your mind to be creative, daring, and adventurous as you plan
your night of Spooktacular fun….break those chains that bind your
adventurous side. Take the first step to enhance your romance if
the two of you are stuck, feeling bored, too tired, or experiencing
loss of excitement and desire for each other.

Do something you may have never done before, such as, buy an Adult
Costume or Novelty Underwear for yourself and your spouse. Then,
decorate your bedroom and bed to compliment your costumes.

Remember, the ideas is to set the mood by the costume and the decor.
If you envision slow and passionate romance, you might be the
naughty nurse for the night. Be sure and have all the medicine
potions to properly care for your patient though.

If you have reservations about shopping for an adult costume in
pubic, buy online. You can shop confidentially in the privacy of
your home. Or…if you absolutely are not a costume kind of
person…simply decorate your bedroom for romance.
What a fun surprise for your spouse and the opportunity to
restore some romance between the two of you!

Think back for a moment when you were a child, remember the
exciting feelings you felt as you waited in line to go through a
haunted house. You grew excited to the unknown ahead. You heart
pounded with uncertainly. Allow your mate the opportunity to
feel and view your marital intimacy in a renewed positive and
exciting Spooktacular light…..

Then, take your lovers hand and lead him or her into a night of
tantalizing passion.

Halloween is getting close…so start planning the SURPRISE now. No
matter how old we get, a nice surprise is pleasantly welcomed.
Putting together an intimate Halloween party can be inexpensive and
take little time….so get started now…we just have a few days
left until the romantic event…

Again, set the mood…be the sexy nurse, or firefighter. Decorate
and do not forget the Ghoulish necessities…to thrill, chill,
and send your lovers nerve endings over the edge.

Here are a couple of decorating ideas to get your creative side
stirred up….

Decorate your bed with a small strand of Halloween lights,
spider webs, and black rose petals…. but do not forget your
lover’s favorite candy to tease, treat and tantalize their body.
Remember, Halloween is all about treats!

In addition, add a few Spicy Pumpkin candles to the nightstand.
Scented candles will be a romantic compliment to the nights festivities,
not to mention, candles add an erotic aroma to dance in the air. Candle light
illuminates a bedroom for romance and bares a sense of warmth.

At last, complete your potions with warming massage oils, tasty lubes
and intimate toys for a Spooktober exotic experience.

Do not let this Halloween pass you by. Once again use this holiday to your advantage.
Treat your spouse to a night of Ghoulish fun and romance they won’t forget
and they will be looking forward to year after year.

Condom Style – How to Make Protection Sexy

Most guys have been drilled on the importance of condom use, and the more optimistic among them may even carry one with them at all times… just in case. But men will often admit that when it comes to the heat of the moment, nothing could be less erotic than having to turn the room upside down in search of an elusive foil package. In fact, it is not unusual for an impassioned couple to throw caution out the window and just hope for the best, rather than risk killing the mood with this annoying practicality.

But countless numbers of men (and women) have had reason to regret such a momentary lapse in judgment when, a few days or weeks later, they discover that they have been left with an unwelcome souvenir of the experience. While many STDs can be successfully treated, some are incurable, and all of them can cause a great deal of discomfort – both physical and emotional. In the end, it is much easier and more sensible to take the necessary precautions in order to protect the penis against contracting a venereal disease.

With a little creativity and a sense of playfulness, a condom does not have to seem like an accusation; instead, guys – with the cooperation of their partners – can incorporate the protective aspect into the fun and games without spoiling the mood.

Keep condoms handy

To avoid disrupting the festivities, condoms should be kept close at hand. Keeping one in the pants pocket is always a good idea, in case of spontaneous encounters or outdoor adventures, but it is also a good idea to keep the nightstand well-stocked. It is even a good idea to separate all of the foil packages to permit as little fumbling as possible when it’s time to get down to business.

Shop together for tantalizing colors, flavors and textures

For couples, a visit to an adult toy store – or just the family planning aisle of the local pharmacy – can be a titillating part of the experience. Condoms are available in a multitude of colors and even flavors, and trying different combinations can be turned into a game.

A variety of textures are also available. Letting her choose is a great way for a guy to show that he cares about her pleasure as well as his own, and she is more than likely to respond favorably when he takes her feelings into account.

For men who find that they have trouble controlling their ejaculations, sensation-delaying condoms can help them to hold off until they are ready, and guys who really prefer bareback may find that ultra-thin condoms give them the intimate sensation they want most.

Make the condom part of the play

Instead of viewing the condom as an interruption, it can be incorporated into the fun and games. For instance, letting her roll it on, at the same time using her fingers to stroke and stimulate, can make the practical side of an encounter much more erotic. Applying a latex-friendly lube can also add to a sensual atmosphere.

Boost penis sensation and overall skin health

Finally, supporting penis skin and nerve health is an important part of eliminating concerns that a condom will dull pleasurable sensations during play. A penis vitamin cream (most health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) that is specially formulated to lock in the skin’s natural moisture and to providing adequate nourishment to the skin and nerve cells can help in two respects. To begin with, vitamin E works to create a natural moisture barrier that may protect the delicate penile skin from irritation related to spermicides. Essential amino acids are absorbed into the skin, where they can go to work supporting healthy nerve tissue and maintaining optimum penis sensitivity. Vitamins A, C and D work together to keep the penis smooth, supple and responsive; this allows men to experience all of the pleasures of sex while still protecting themselves and their partners from potential problems.

How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship

The Question:

My partner and I have been together for 2 years now and we have been living together for about 4 months. Now that we are living together I feel that our relationship has changed. We hardly ever have sex, probably once a month is about all we manage to achieve.

I love sex and I’m sure that my partner does too, but for some reason we just can’t seem to make an effort to do the wild thing – one of us or both are always tired and sometimes it feels like we’re losing sexual compatibility; now it seems like I’ve had more passion in the past with other men or in the beginning of our relationship.

We do love each other and we’ve been through a lot together but I feel that our relationship is changing and I don’t know what to do about it.

We are becoming more like best friends everyday and I’m scared that the passion is fading. His idea of seduction and mine are totally different – he thinks ‘Let’s have sex?’ is an acceptable phrase into seducing a woman into hot sex, where as I would rather be pinned up against a wall without a word being said and so on…

When we weren’t living together our relationship was great; we did struggle a bit in the sex department but 3 times a week compared to once a month was a vast improvement.

Any advice you have considering this situation would be greatly appreciated. I don’t think I want to lose my relationship but I don’t know if I have the will power to save it – I don’t know what to do.

The Answer:

You might be surprised to learn that almost all long term relationships go through this ‘phase’ where everyone seems to get a little lazy. From my experience, it seems to happen somewhere between 18 months and 3 years into the relationship.

Here are some ideas that will help you make the best decision for you.

Does he know how you feel?

Open and honest communication is the most important component of any relationship.

Talk about it! Yes, with him, not with your girlfriends, not with anyone else. It’s absolutely amazing how many lovers simply don’t communicate openly and honestly with one another.

So many guys chat about their love live with their buddies, often as a way of bragging and showing off. And then they ask their guy friends if this or that sex idea would be ok. This is a bad idea for guys and girls. If you’re trying to figure out what sexual experiences to try out, talk with your lover not your buddies.

So, does he know that you crave hot spontaneous sex, or that you get excited by playing a little rough? Guess what, he might like that too! Or he might not, but you’ll never know if you don’t explore this topic together. And by the way, you’ll have a lot of fun and get a lot closer in the process.

Don’t hurt anyone’s feelings and check your ego at the door

It’s a strange thing, but sex partners often get their feelings hurt when one of them suggests trying something new, or doing something a little differently.

Get over it! The point of sex and intimacy is to enjoy each other and be happy together! Unless of course you’re focused solely on making babies – but that’s not the topic of this article…

Getting comfortable and killing your relationship

Complacency, also known as “getting comfortable” is the death knell of so many relationships, it may as well be a full blown epidemic. So many couples strive to “get comfortable”. What that means is they stop trying. And guess what… you stop trying, and your relationship dies. It’s that simple. The excitement and attraction dies, and your relationships becomes a project that you’re always fixing up. That’s no fun.

So how can you add that spice and excitement back into your relationship so that you’re not just lusting after those hot bodies at the gym?

Seduction as a game for lovers – the chase begins anew

The thrill of seduction doesn’t end when you get into a relationship. Why give up such a wonderful thing, even if you could?

Admit it, we enjoy the chase. I know I do and I’m at peace with it. And if you’re not chasing your lover, you’ll end up chasing someone else. We’re just wired that way. So let’s just accept that fact and use it to our advantage.

When was the last time you tried to seduce your partner? No, I’m not talking about coming home and saying “hey, let’s go have sex”. Blah! Boring!

I mean dressing up to look your best, wearing something sexy and feeling sexy.

Some of the best and most exciting sex is spontaneous sex, when you’re so wrapped up in the heat of the moment that you just can’t stop from ripping each other’s clothes off! Now that’s excitement. And doesn’t it sound more fun than “hey, let’s go have sex”?

Schedule hot sex dates

You go through the trouble of scheduling lunch and dinner appointments with just about everyone in your life. How about paying at least that much attention to your lover? Make time for that really steamy hot date, and plan accordingly. That way you’ll both be anticipating it all day, or all week.

Make a sex date box

Here’s a neat idea. Get together with your lover and each of you jot down a steamy date idea on a piece of paper and agree that each time you go on a hot steamy date, you’ll pick a card from your special sex date box.

Watch some erotic movies – together

Basic Instinct, Wild Orchid, 9 and 1/2 Weeks – it doesn’t have to be Playboy Porn, just something that gets you excited – trust me – he’ll get excited simply by you being excited.

Go out and buy some hot lingerie – together

What could be more exciting than shopping for hot lingerie together? By the time you’re done, you’ll be well in the mood for a hot sex date.

How about going to an adult toy store – together?

Maybe go visit an adult toy store together. Even if you don’t buy anything, you’re sure to have a lot of fun checking out all the merchandise.

Mix it up with some new sexual adventures

Doing the same old thing over and over again is bound to get boring. You wouldn’t watch the same TV show for the rest of your life, would you?

Try something different. Whether you’re up for a threesome or interested in the wild latex world of BDSM, the same idea applies.

Be open to new experiences. Venture out and keep it exciting.

In summary

Talk with your partner about sex. Really, make a date to sit down and go over it. Then resolve to always talk about it form then on.
Check your ego at the door. If your partner makes sex suggestions and you get defensive, then you’re missing the point completely. Get over it and put your partner first. You’ll be glad you did.
Don’t strive to get “comfortable” in a relationship. If you’re there, break out of it before you doom your relationship for good.
Bring the excitement of seduction and the chase back into your relationship – fast.
Actually schedule some hot sex dates with your partner. Really.
Keep it exciting with some new sexual adventures. Try new things. Open your mind and explore the entire world of sex possibilities.

Spice Up Your Marriage With These Sizzlin’ Hot Sex Tips That Will Make You Scream Tonight!

Discover how to spice up your marriage with these simple sizzling sex tips that will improve emotional and sexual intimacy with your husband. It’s like having an affair – but you won’t need to save your marriage afterward!

1. Enjoy a Sexy Shower Together. Showering with your spouse can be an erotic experience. Enjoy a sensual ritual of taking a shower together. Wash his back, let him shampoo your hair and stroke conditioner in it as you fellate him, and then take it to the bedroom where you can both towel off.

Sexy shower gifts are also available for you both to indulge in, making your erotic experiences together even wetter and wilder than you’d have ever thought was possible.

2. Shop for Adult Sex Toys Together. Shopping for adult sex toys together ups the ante in your love life because you’re in an environment devoted to improving your pleasure and lovemaking experiences. Pick up the crazy things, and choose something that can potentially send your orgasms full throttle as you connect.

3. Spank His Naughty Behind. Spanking is a light pathway into the exploration of BDSM or dominance and submission style erotic activity. Kinky and creative ways to insert spanking into your play are as schoolmaster and naughty student as you roleplay with one another.

If you really want to get naughty with it, a hot and sexy dominatrix costume, and some whips and crops are also available for you to play with. Check out these hot and sexy outfits and ideas that can bring out the dark side in your marriage.

4. Invite Spontaneity in Your Marriage. Spontaneity is the art of being impulsive and creative with one another as you make love. Get inspired to make love on the side of the highway, kiss him passionately in a dressing room while you’re out shopping together, or touching passionately in the car, elevator, backyard… wherever you’re inspired to touch each other.

5. Indulge in Sensuous Full Body Massages. Giving each other a sexy full body massage will definitely help you warm up your sex life. Using a hot wax candle can sting in the sexiest way and still provide a soothing, stimulating sensation that can increase the passion factor in your foreplay experience.

Hot sensuous wax, warm oil and scented candles can set the scene in this hot and sexy experience. Check out retailers like Adam and Eve or ForPlay for some hot and sexy romance products!

Discover how to spice up your marriage with more of these hot and sexy secrets! Learn the sexy skill of talking dirty, sexting and more. When you’re inspired to keep things fresh and sexy, you’ll never need to worry about having to save your marriage from an affair!

Hot G Vibe Online Adult Store Opens a New Product Review and Information Section

Since 2005, the Hot G Vibe online adult sex toys store has been offering a large variety of pleasure goods in order to aid those in need of sexual enhancement. Today, many couples feel that there will always be room for more excitement in the bedroom. However, there still are concerns of the vending of Sex Toys. Children’s toys and adult toys have traditionally been manufactured with phthalic acid- a chemical mixed with plasticizers that maximizes a toy’s flexibility. Scientific studies have proven that these chemical compounds cause health risks over time. It was only until recently that the European Union and a few other countries banned the use of phthalates in the production of plastic toys.

In 2006, Hot G Vibe and its manufacturers put an end to the use of phthalates in their adult toys. This represented a symbol of leadership among Canadian sex toy vendors, however there still are many adult toys shops that have not stopped the production of this chemical in their products. Like X4 Labs, Hot G Vibe began taking a different approach to its infrastructure to its audiences by changing the company’s image.

At the Hot G Vibe website, visitors can learn crucial information on the subject of sex education. Providing expert-written articles about safe sex is the future of gaining fidelity and establishing a positive image in the eye of those visiting the website. Since no other online adult shops offer this, Hot G Vibe has taken a hands-on approach to change how people think and feel about online adult stores. The information portal on the website not only provides the most preeminent information about sexual health education, it is also a valid review site for adult toys and medical products.

The team at Hot G Vibe recruits expert reviewers to assess various adult toys and thus provides readers with all the information they need to know prior to any online purchasing. Several enlargement review sites have ranked the We-Vibe Review article as being one of the best consultations for adult toy shopping.

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This new approach to building a successful online sex shop is what makes Hot G Vibe stand out from other erotic shops. By incorporating educational reviews on adult content and products, visitors can seek advice in relation to the nature of sexual enhancement products that are available on the Internet. Professional reviews presented by the Hot G Vibe website provides readers with valid insights into what to look out for when making online purchases. To a company like this, it is the only way to make shoppers feel confident when it comes to having the best online shopping experience.

Using the Tips From an Adult Sex Guide Could Help Improve Your Love Life

Many books have been written for adults only. These books not only contain jokes, list out sex tips and discus different problems but also focus on games adults play. You can check out the details online and then download the right information which you can read at leisure. Several “Men’s only”sites are also available, where you can sign up as a member. Men openly discuss the most delicate topics and share views and opinions online. They send out regular newsletters, so that you receive an update on the latest in fashion, gadgets, products and more.

Some men are naturally good lovers. They are able to keep their women happy by doing what comes naturally. The important thing is that you should learn to relax. You should concentrate less on trying not to prematurely ejaculate and more on getting your lover in the right mood. A woman likes to take her time enjoying the sensations and foreplay that allows her to reach her peaks. Learn how to kiss and fondle her in such a way that she gets turned on. You can get detailed information from any adult sex guide online. Do not be hasty in choosing the first one that you see. Seeking information is one thing but putting it into practice will make the difference.

An adult sex guide will have more explicit information on the secret hot sex buttons you need to press, how much pressure you can apply and how to control yourself, from exploding prematurely. In the privacy of your bedroom, you can try out different variations and techniques. You can completely transform your den to make it look alluring, by lighting a few incensed candles, or you can both soak in that Jacuzzi swirling with beautiful red rose petals and lavender scented oils. The whole ambiance should be seductive with light music playing in the background. Do not overdo any of this because that could scare your lover away.

Make use of the hot sex tips that are contained in an Adult sex guide. Remember, kinky sex may interest your partner. Discuss your likes and dislikes and mutually try to benefit by deriving maximum pleasures from your efforts.

Read This Before Downloading Any Adult Sex Guide

The online world is actually inundated with adult sex guides. Just try searching for them on your favorite search engine and you are going to see such a lot of them waiting for you. They are all priced differently according to what they are supposed to contain and they contain different things as well. But, the point is, do you really need an adult sex guide?

The question you have to ask yourself is why you are looking for such a book to help you. Definitely the answer is that you are looking at improving your sexual performance. You are looking at giving your woman greater pleasure in bed. And you are hoping that the tantalizing sex guide you are looking forward to download will help you with it.

But, the fact is, no sex guide can help you if you don’t help yourself. These are some points you have to consider beforehand.

1. Good sex doesn’t come without a good equation with your partner. Yes, there are books that will train you in the pure art of carnal sex, but if you are in a long term committed relationship, then such a book won’t help you. Probably you will need a book that will tell you how to construct a better relationship with your partner than just some meaningless sex.

2. If you indulge in a great deal of foreplay, you can arouse your woman immensely. This is something that can really help you in what lies ahead. Maybe you won’t need the adult sex guide to spice up your act after that.

3. Another thing you have to consider is that you will need to actually implement the things that are mentioned in the guide if you want it to be effective for you. You cannot just read the book and then not implement it. Then it would be a futile exercise. In all probability the book is going to tell you about how you can have some more daring sexual experiences to make things more exciting-you have to be able to use that.

These are some of the things that you have to consider before downloading any adult sex guide. Will you be able to do it? That’s the question you have to answer.